Well courtesy of Lani at the Literary Chicks and her new book, 'Ex and the Single Girl'. Today's post is brought to you by Googling the Ex Boyfriend Day. I admit, it was something I had never thought of doing. I mean, yeah, I guess I wonder about past friends every once in a while, but I figure that most of the time, the past should stay the past.

However, after contemplating which boyfriend to google, I realized a) I don't have that many ex-boyfriends and b) I could only remember the full name of one of them. TOTAL BLANK on the rest... sure there's Andy (very short dating span) and Barry (both of the Barrys I dated) and Hank. Those are probably the only 'boyfriends' I dated.. but the only own whose first and last name I could recall was the very first: Carl. And guess what, he's got a blog! And he's married! And I'm happy for him! Because in all honesty I stomped on his poor heart and I have probably felt guilty about it every since. The break up came from waaaay out in left field and to this day I've never given him a really good explanation other than "I was 16".

But Carl's a good guy and I wish him and his wife nothing but the biggest blessings.

And since it's all about me... I really feel better knowing he's happy and married now!!